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its so easy, let me tell you.To the person that took the time to write me an email about how easy stripping is and that it requires no skill set, I’d like to invite you to try standing on your tip toes for at least eight hours at a time, do about 100-200 squats (or more depending on your dancing style), make it look effortless and sexy, smile whilst eating metaphorical shit, and try to sell your sexual energy (yep, something that isn’t even physically tangible, which in our society of idiotic ideas, is pretty much equated to selling bullshit). Good luck. Make sure you tip out too.
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[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Miss Darling, Sequoia Redd. Sequoia Redd said: its so easy, let me tell you. – http://sequoiaredd.com/blog/2011/01/its-so-easy-let-me-tell-you/ [...]
Short and to the point. When you have the time, please tell some of the conclusions, deductions and perceptions you hear from your audience and other circumstances you have to deal with in your life as a sex worker. It would give a better overview of the business atmosphere.
A business or manager mind frame would have to respect the discipline and personal bearing employed to do what the mundane world perceives so easy.
Not to forget how it all spills over to personal life.
You have my deepest respect.
haha and don’t forget your stage fee, asshole.
Stripping is a bout as easy as construction work in six inch heels while being a babysitter, therapist, and waitress at once. I think it’s about a zillion jobs mixed into one. People are so dumb…
…oh and dont forget actress!
ok this is comming from a guy. I had a girlfriend who stripped and I made the mistake of saying some thing along those lines(dumb move I know) well her response was to borrow of six inch pumps from a pre-op friend of hers who had the same size foot as me and dared me to give it a try. Well I manned up and gave it a shot….if only we had a video camera,Americas funnist videos would crown that vid the best of all time.Needless to say I no longer say stupid stuff like that! Hope my emberasing moment gave y’all a good laugh.
Aside from the obvious emotional drain, stripping really is a hard workout. Aside from the dancing on the stage, you are up on your feet working the floor non-stop (probably in high heels), and then there are the private dances. I once got 5 private dances in a row from a girl, at which point she said “Can we take a break for a song or two, I’m really worn out.” And I believed her. The woman had been doing intense cardio for 15 minutes straight. Go outside and run briskly for 15 minutes straight and see how sexy you feel after.
Climbing the pole, for example, is also much harder than it looks. First, you’re doing pullups, then a plyometric swing around (all while bracing yourself on the pole), and then whatever weird contortions the dancer has dreamed up. It’s like a gymnastics floor routine, only it happens on a pole. Do that a few times in a row, and I’m telling you, you’ll feel it. Strippers do that sort of thing all night long.
The girls who insist that it is easy work are the ones who A) don’t dance onstage, they just stand in the center and sort of rock back and forth a little while staring off into space, B) do a private dance basically by sitting on the guy’s lap and, well, yeah, that’s it, and C) spend most of the time talking either backstage with the other girls or out on the floor with a regular who pays them to hang out.
That being said, the emotional drain is surely worse than the physical. I mean, ask any dancer to tell some horror stories, and they always have more than enough material to fill any conversation.
Bottom line, it’s a hard job.
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r u positive which is true?