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my ‘vagina’ monologue, but its really all about the vulva**Disclaimer: I know that vagina is not an anatomically correct way to refer to ‘down there’ and that most of this story actually references the vulva itself. I thought about just calling it my V monologue, but that seems so non-descript. I also thought about calling it my pussy monologue, since that is actually my favorite way of referring to my kitty but…I didn’t. I called it my vagina monologue since it was inspired by a show I saw recently for the first time called, The Vagina Monolgues.**
If my pussy could talk, she would have a lot of stories to tell. She would try to start off from the beginning. She’d tell you about how good it felt to hump teddy bears as a kid. She might tell you about being ignored for several years after a molestation. She might tell you about my mother teaching me to rub vaseline on her (my pussy) to soothe the resulting bladder infections. She might tell you about being woken up again around puberty. She might tell you about all the sex she’s had, with women and men, both paid and “for free” (because nothing is really for free). She would tell you about one night stands, long term relationships, private paid sessions, being felt up onscreen…being kissed, licked, fucked and sucked. She would tell you about being shaven, being hairy, being trimmed. She might tell you about the musky smell that her proud owner enjoys so much. She might complain that I masturbate too much…might…though it would probably be my right wrist complaining about that. She might tell you about being spread open over and over again in front of a webcam. She might tell you about getting fucked on a porn set. She might tell you about the days when she was so wet, when she wanted so much, she was dripping her juices down my leg and throbbing, aching, pleading, begging to be touched…
and comparitvely the days when she feels real dry and how she gets sick of her lovers taking it personally. She’d say her most favorite lube was hathor aphrodesia and how long that took to discover it. If my pussy could talk…she would probably say take more time. Go slower. Enjoy every little sensation I have to offer. Don’t rush to the finish line, enjoy the journey there. She’d tell you that when she’s pre-menstrual and bleeding are her favorite times to get fucked rough from behind. She’d tell you about how one of the sexiest moments she can ever remember is when she was going to hook up with a girl that she was madly in love with, and how she happened to get her period right when they were supposed to devour each other and how she told this to the girl and the girl said “a little blood never hurt anyone…” She would tell you about how I was embarrassed about her big, meaty lips and did all I could as a teenager to tuck them in. She would tell you about the time I learned to love my pussy, my butterfly lips, my hair, my smell. She would tell you how porn did that. She would tell you about being photographed and videotaped and broadcasted and shown off to a hundred million people. She would tell you how she’s been praised and heckled, worshiped and abominated. More or less for the same reasons. Hairy and natural, big lips…too hairy, roast beef lips. She’d tell you how she doesn’t really see the difference sometimes, that while of course she favors being praised, it just seems like the same mentality but reversed. She would say, all pussies should be praised and valued, whether shaven, hairy, full lips, no lips, uneven lips, musky, sweet, sour, tangy, salty…its all good. She would tell you about learning how to ejaculate. Learning how to push out when climaxing rather than pulling in. She would tell you about how proud she is of all of the big, wet, juicy spots she’s left behind. She would tell you about how she doesn’t favor one type of orgasm over the other. She would tell you that she likes being squirted on by other women and feeling cum inside her. She would tell you that she enjoys enveloping* a swollen hard cock and feeling a soft tongue explore every nook and cranny. She would probably tell you, that though this hasn’t been the most comfortable ride at times, she wouldn’t change a damn thing because she’s pretty sure that she’s one of the most loved pussies in the world. She would tell you that sex work hasn’t harmed her in the least, its saved her, made her more aware and conscious. She would say that humanity needs to learn to get out of their heads and into their bodies more. That masturbation should be considered a form of exercise, that sexuality is an art and a dance and more people need to get creative with it and more experienced around it. She would say that although good sex can be about connection and passion, that people have better sex when they’re experienced and know what they’re doing. Experiential education is key. She would say, “Why not be prepared when your perfect lover comes along?”.
If my pussy wore clothes, it would probably dress just like me, favoring sun dresses and long flowing skirts without panties to let the breeze through. Really though, if my pussy could talk, I would probably open my mouth. Because my pussy is really me and I am her in the same. We can’t be separated. While there are many issues surrounding female genitalia, the real issue is with the way humanity regards femininity itself and those issues are projected in between our legs and they penetrate our hearts and minds. If my pussy could talk, it would probably say, I appreciate all the attention, people, but I’m attached to an entire woman, if you really want to please me and make me cum, you’ll experience my body all over, you’ll take your time, you’ll know that a full body massage is actually the perfect before-foreplay and that sexuality is a holistic experience (although quickies are great at the right time She’d probably say my entire body is my sex organ, you should treat it that way.
The Vagina Monologues have been through a lot of feminist controversy. I thought it was pretty funny, albeit hetero-normative. I think they should have put a little more educational information in the show and I didn’t like how the only sex worker represented was one that serviced women, while thats pretty rare and I appreciate hearing that point of view, I would have liked to see someone represented that services men or even couples (as many do). I think that they probably chose a sex worker that services women so that “feminists” could accept hearing a sex worker’s point of view about sexuality. If anyone knows of any other shows that are awesome and open and sexual, please feel free to suggest them in the comments *Thanks Eryn for the idea of enveloping a penis rather than being penetrated by one. 27 comments to my ‘vagina’ monologue, but its really all about the vulva |
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Wow………..that was an incredible piece of writing accompanied by some great photos.
I’d love to taste your pussy and have your pussy envelop my cock.
I am so hard right now….
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You do the coolest,most interesting blogs. And you do a lot of unshaven pix that are Serious smoking!! Pure hot beauty. And u support this naturalism which is even more cool
I really admire how open you are about your body and how accepting you are of yourself. I’ve wanted to get so many things worked on. My chin reduced, my breasts redone, braces for my teeth, vaginal reconstruction… you name it. I’m rethinking these things going through your blog. I find you very inspiring and breath of fresh air. I hope I can get where you are mentally someday. Thank you!
thanks, I’m glad you enjoyed it!
You have a gorgeous… self. The imagery, feeling, forthrightness are fantastic. Rhythm for a bit, then shift it up, then a bit of tease, then feeling, then body… An organ worthy of the fingers of Bach.
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This is simply inspired.
Thank you for the fantastic read.
wow! thanks so much!
I watched my mom go through plastic surgery for a rich boyfriend when I was younger. I had nightmares about what she looked like when she came home from the doctor’s office for years, it really mentally scarred me. I think its definitely influenced my feelings about plastic surgery. Whilst I get that some people do it for “self esteem” and some consider it “body modification” no different than a tattoo or piercing, I kind of feel like the majority of women do it to fit into standards that aren’t realistic for everyone.
I wish instead of the emphasis on this weirdo standard of beauty in our society it was directed to eating really good foods, exercise, and nature because if more people focused on just those three things I think we’d end up with a cooler kind of beauty. Thats just my thought anyways.
you mean naturism? yeah, I think the first step to having a good sex life is accepting your body and naturism is a great introduction into shedding your insecurities. I like it too because you don’t realize until you live in an environment without clothes just how much emphasis there is out there on how you dress your body. naturism helps you drop some of the bullshit and you can just enjoy being naked in nature, which is the shit.
that was very poetic, jason, thanks
WOW, That is simply awe inspiring and amazing work of art. You have what I can only say the hottest, most sexiest vulva that I have ever laid my eyes on. You have the most amazing, kissable, lickable and georgous vulva.
As for the The Vagina Monologues, I have never understood that, being that I’m born an Intersex person and a hermaphrodite. I guess that’s because I don’t fit into the male and female society.
Thank you for that… that was beautiful and insightful, touching and very well-written. I love how you express yourself.
Nice work Love it.
So much beauty, truth and wisdom here. An Easter miracle?
we don’t celebrate Easter on this blog or in my world. The Spring Equinox was on March 19 I believe this year, full moon was on the 28th and new moon is on 4-14…plenty of real, beautiful, natural world events to celebrate
its also egg laying season for the sea turtles if you’re a Floridian. very beautiful
Thanks for a great monologue and some more great pictures.
whoops, I just realized a major grammar mistake that could lead people to think something else than what I meant, please re-read and if you misunderstood, sorry.
That was an awesome, sexy, inspirational blog entry.
Sequoia, You’ve heard it said, “Keep Christ in Christmas.” Well what I meant by my above is you keep estrus in Easter. So the egg laying season of the sea turtles was appropriate for you to mention. And speaking of Easter eggs, have you ever seen the outline of a bunny in the full moon? I’d love to point it out to you someday.
That was one of the best reads I’ve had in a long, long time. You are amazing. I looooove that picture of the pond. Woah!
I love the idea of being enveloped rather than penetrating. Penetration is too much like stabbing for my liking. Also, your photos are stunning as ever.
Wish you called it the “pussy monologue”, but that’s just because it sounds better and more real to todays world.
That was maybe my favorite post I have read. Very well done!
That was wonderful. It’s possible to be poetic about a vulva in a way that’s impossible with a cock (although DH Lawrence wrote rather unconvincingly in Lady Chatterley about the cock as a delicate thing). Perhaps it’s just that the vulva is aesthetically more attractive and that anatomically it is much more complicated – the clitoris in particular. You;re right to say that men can focus on the pussy to the exclusion of everything else – working on the assumption that women;s bodies are just like theirs perhaps. It took me a long time to learn the pleasures of long, slow foreplay…And, as I said in a previous post, every pussy is perfect in its own unique way. Keep blogging and have fun on your marathon walk.
Hey Sequoia (i still have to spell check your name :p ) Sorry i havent responded back sooner than now ….think I posted my comment like 3 months ago sorry. / Yes i bet it would be a very fullfilling,”different” kind of good feeling to not have clothes in the way of who we are as people. But……just out of curiosity….does it ever make ya hornier? Being naked all the time…….or do ya kinda get used to it kinda after a while .Ive always been curious about that. Your like….my favorite adult actress/model …even though i dont really even have one. But if i did it would be you for the fact you keep it pretty real & you also support “naturism” And as ive said before…Your not afraid to grow some bush & be just “natural” ….you wouldnt belive how many woman feel the peer pressure to be bald. So many woman “think” all us guys like bald for some damn reason. its beyond me. To me thats something for a special occasion maybe. or a special treat maybe for a woman to do for her man . It didnt really become “the thing to do” till late 80s/early 90s ….before that “most” woman had normal pubic hair (sounds tacky calling it that lol ) Anyway…..have an awesome day & more poiwer to ya & your beliefs. and more power to your cool Blogs too =D Dave
I performed the V monologues earlier this year. I must say, yours is my favorite!
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